“Wouldn’t It Be Great?”: The Heartbreaking Plea Loretta Lynn Wrote for Her Husband
Some of the most powerful songs aren’t the angry anthems, but the quiet whispers. The ones that feel less like a performance and more like you’re overhearing a private, heartfelt prayer.
Loretta Lynn was the queen of fierce, trailblazing country hits. She was the “Coal Miner’s Daughter,” a woman who never minced words. But behind that legendary smile, she carried a private heartache for decades: her deep love for her husband, Doolittle, and his lifelong battle with alcoholism.
When she finally put that pain to paper, she didn’t write a song of fury or blame, which she easily could have. Instead, she wrote one of the most vulnerable and loving pleas in music history. The song was “Wouldn’t It Be Great?”, and it was written directly for him.
It’s a song that completely skips bitterness and goes straight to the devastating core of what it feels like to love someone through addiction. It isn’t a list of wrongdoings or a story of drunken nights. It’s simply a wife’s gentle, heartbreaking wish to have her husband back from the bottle that held him captive. It’s a confession of how much she missed the man she fell in love with.
The entire universe of her pain and hope is wrapped up in that simple, six-word question she asked for years: “Wouldn’t It Be Great?”
Wouldn’t it be great if you could just stay with me? Wouldn’t it be great if the bottle didn’t win?
It’s one of the most profoundly compassionate songs ever written about such a painful subject. It’s a raw, beautiful testament to a love that refused to turn to anger, choosing instead to hold on to a simple, desperate hope for a better day. It’s a wife’s prayer, set to a melody.