BEFORE THE BAR FIGHTS, THE FLAG, AND THE RED SOLO CUP, TOBY KEITH’S SECOND NO. 1 WAS A MAN SITTING IN A CAR OUTSIDE HIS OWN HOUSE, WATCHING ANOTHER MAN LIVE HIS LIFE. They never gave him credit as a writer. Too loud, too easy, a novelty act with a good marketing team. That’s the verdict a lot of people still carry. He wrote “Who’s That Man” alone. July 1994. He was 32. There’s no shouting in it. A man drives past a house he used to come home to. The tree he planted is still by the fence. The dog is still in the yard. His kids are in there. His wife is in there. And so is somebody else. That’s the whole song. No revenge, no scene, no confrontation. Just a man doing the math on a street he used to live on. It went to No. 1 in October that year. Radio cut nearly ninety seconds out of it to make it fit. He made heartbreak sound ordinary — like a porch light still burning for someone else. Everybody remembers the loud Toby Keith. What would they have said if “Who’s That Man” was the one they heard first?
Before the Bar Fights, the Flag, and the Red Solo Cup, Toby Keith Told a Smaller, Sadder Story People often…