“THE SONG HE SANG FOR HIS DAD.” 🎸

He didn’t write it for the charts. He wrote it for the man who taught him how to stand tall, work hard, and mean what he said.
When Toby Keith recorded “My List” in 2001, people thought it was just another country tune about slowing down — about taking time to breathe between the noise. But for Toby, it was more than that. It was a promise.

The song came during a season when his life was moving fast — stadium tours, long flights, interviews, flashing cameras. But back home in Oklahoma, his dad, H.K. Covel, had a simpler view of things. He’d say, “Son, make sure you don’t miss the small stuff. It’s what ends up mattering most.”

So when Toby sang, “Start livin’, that’s the next thing on my list,” he wasn’t just performing. He was talking to his father — and to himself. It was a reminder to call your mom, to take that fishing trip, to put the phone down and watch the sunset.

Then, in March 2001, Toby’s father passed away in a car accident. The loss hit him harder than anyone could see. After that, “My List” became something different. It wasn’t just a song — it was a way to keep his dad close.
Friends said Toby would hum it quietly before shows, not as a warm-up, but as a way to steady his heart.

When fans sing along today, they might not know the story behind it. But that’s what makes Toby Keith special — he could take something deeply personal and make it feel like everyone’s story.

Because “My List” isn’t just about Toby’s father. It’s about all of ours — the people we lose, the moments we forget to hold on to, and the gentle reminders to start living before time runs out.

And maybe that’s why the song still hits so hard after all these years. Because somewhere in that melody, you can still hear him — a son singing for his dad, and a man reminding the world to live with heart.

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